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What you need to know
Parental Control Apps

  • Talk to your kids about the monitoring app before installing it.
  • Make adjustments to the app as your kids grow older.
  • Remember, your child should have some privacy.
  • Use the free trial periods to see which app works best for you.
Our Approach

How we analyzed the best Parental Control App Providers

Transparency
We stayed away from apps that were designed to be secretly installed or required the phone to be “jailbroken” or “rooted.”
Multiple OS Monitoring
We graded apps that can monitor multiple devices and platforms higher than apps that were limited in scope.
Unique Features
Apps that with unique capabilities were graded higher than apps with no specialized features.
Ease of Installation/Use
Apps that were easy to install and configure got higher marks than apps that were difficult to set up.
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Our Top Picks: Parental Control Apps Reviews

Bark review

Best for Social Media Monitoring

We chose Bark as the best app for social media monitoring because out of all the apps we tested, it monitored by far the largest number of them--more than 30. In fact, Bark’s specialty is social media monitoring, which addresses one of the chief concerns of parents today.

Bark is easy to install. Once you download the app on your device and connect your child’s account, just select the apps you want Bark to monitor and you’re all set. The app has the ability to monitor text messages, images/photos posted, email content, YouTube videos, and more. The key is to connect each app your child has to the Bark dashboard with your child’s login credentials. By doing so, Bark will also let you know if your child is trying to sign into that app from another device. Bark will also let you know if he/she downloads a new app.

The app uses artificial intelligence to not only flag keywords but also identify the context those words are used in and to learn the nuances of oft-changing slang used by kids, tweens and teens.  If it detects a pattern over time that suggests a potential problem--e.g. bullying, violence or suicidal ideation--it will alert you to it. Otherwise, don’t expect to receive alerts about every little thing your child does on social media. You will, however, get a weekly activity report detailing what apps your child was most active on so you get an idea of how he/she is spending time online.

Screenshot of https://www.bark.us/ 2/19/2020

You can set Bark’s monitoring to flag issues like depression, self-harm, profanity, and others, to alert you about all areas of concern, or only notify you about the most severe potential problems. You can also adjust the app to screen for the severity of your child’s behavior on a sliding scale. If you choose to get alerted to all issues, you may get alerts if your child shows signs of merely being bummed out. If you slide the scale towards only the most severe, you’ll be alerted if the app detects things like continual talk about suicide or self-harm.

Bark also allows parents to control their children's screen time and screen activity. You can set time-outs and bedtimes and block objectionable sites. Parents can customize these controls for each child's devices, too.

We also liked Bark’s blogs and advice content, which provide a number of articles about social media and how to talk to your kids about sensitive topics. Bark’s website also explains how the digital world is changing, what parents need to prepare for, and how to teach your kids about internet safety. Bark Connect is a forum where parents can ask questions and get advice not only from Bark personnel, but also from other parents who may have had similar experiences. The company also hosts a Facebook page, Parenting in a Tech World, where Bark and other parental control app users can communicate with each other about common issues, solutions, and successes.

Bark will work on iOS and Android phones (as with all parental control apps, monitoring can be limited on iOS; more on that later), iPads, MAC, PCs, Kindle tablets and Chromebook. Subscriptions start at $5.00 per month for an unlimited number of children and devices. Bark offers a seven-day free trial period. If you are interested in adding more control features such as time limits and internet filters, Bark can be used with other apps.

Norton Family Premier review

Best for Combining with Antivirus Software

Online safety nowadays doesn’t necessarily apply to only your children, but to the whole family. Viruses, hackers, and malware are all problems that can affect all the devices you may have connected to the internet. Since you may already be considering or using antivirus software to protect your home, why not combine it with a parental control app for a seamless solution?

We chose Norton’s Family Premier because of its comprehensive child monitoring features, but also because it can be combined with one of the best antivirus products  on the market today.

Screenshot of https://family.norton.com/web/ 2/19/2020

Norton Family Premier is very easy to set up. Open an account, set up your child’s devices, select their age, and Norton will give you preset blocks on websites, apps, games, and social media. Settings can be customized if necessary and you can decide what kind of alerts you receive. The app allows you to set up house rules, which remind your child of which activities are monitored and which are blocked. You can check on your child’s activities on the Family Premier dashboard or elect to receive email alerts if house rules are broken.

You can set time limits on each device for gameplay or social media access, completely block phone use except for emergency calls, and keep track of the types of activities and interactions your child is engaging in on social media. Family Premier also offers location tracking. You can choose to get daily, weekly or monthly reports on your child’s activities.

On Norton’s Internet Security Center, you’ll find the Kid’s Safety section with articles concerning safety tips, common online threats, cyberbullying, and other topics. You’ll also have access to all of Norton’s articles concerning viruses, malware, online scams, and more.

Norton offers three versions of its 360 protection plans: the Standard, Deluxe and Premium. All plans offer antivirus protection, firewall, secure VPN, SafeCam (alerts and blocks  if someone tries to access your PC camera), and 75GB of Cloud backup. The difference between the plans will be the number of devices covered.

Family Premier works on Windows 7-10, XP, and Vista (Edge is not supported at the moment), Android 4 or later. Parental controls is not supported for Mac. The yearly subscription is $39.99, but if you buy the Norton 360 Deluxe or Premium plans, Family Premier is included. At the time of this writing, Norton 360 Deluxe was on sale for $39.99 (regular price is $64.99) and Norton 360 Premium was on sale for $55.99 (regular price of $89.99). Family Premier offers a 30 day free trial period, the longest of any parental control app we tried.

Qustodio review

Best for Monitoring Across Multiple Platforms

We chose Qustodio over other apps because of its versatility. It provides a wide range of control tools that work across multiple browsers and operating systems. It is available worldwide and can be used in eight different languages, making it easy for co-parents to manage.

Installing Qustodio is easy, requiring the parent to install the app on their phone or open an account on a computer and then installing the app on the child’s device. As part of the installation process, you can select from a list of categories what content you want to be blocked and what can be accessed. Parents can also customize the app to meet their own particular concerns and requirements. Qustodio also allows you to block specific apps and games you don’t want your child accessing, as well as block contacts from calling your child’s phone or sending text messages.

Screenshot of https://www.qustodio.com/en/ 12/29/2023

As part of Qustodio’s premium monitoring service, you’ll be able to not only view texts and read your child’s SMS messages but also see what they’re doing on social media apps like Facebook, YouTube, Instagram, Snapchat and WhatsApp. It’s also easy to set time limits for gameplay and interaction on social media, or establish times like dinner, study time, bedtime, or family time where you don’t want the device being used.

A neat feature of Qustodio’s location tracking is the Panic Button. This function allows your child to send a short text to your phone to let you know they need to be picked up. This feature is useful, especially when dealing with teens who may be out on their own late at night and find themselves in an uncomfortable or dangerous situation.

The blog section provides a number of helpful tips and articles related to online safety as well as how to talk to your children about potential dangers online, how to deal with cyberbullying, and other issues. 

Qustodio is a versatile app that can be used on Android, iOS, MAC OSX, Windows, and Kindle devices. It is available worldwide in eight different languages: English, Spanish, Portuguese, Italian, French, Deutsch, Japanese, and Chinese. The basic plan starts at $54.95 per year, which is equivalent to $4.58 per month. The complete plan costs $99.95 per year, which is equivalent to $8.33 per month. Both plans come with a 30-day money-back guarantee. Additionally, both plans offer one-to-one customer support service, Care Plus which is available in English and Spanish, to help parents install and configure the app with ease. Qustodio also allows co-parenting by granting access to premium accounts for two parents or guardians, making it easy to share the responsibility of protecting the child's devices.

Sign up now for the 30-day free plan to try out all the premium features, no bank details are required.

Life360 review

Best for Location Tracking

Although many of the apps we tested had location tracking features, we chose Life360 because geotracking is its bread and butter, being the primary focus of the app. It can provide geolocation information in 140 countries and all seven continents.

Setting up Life360 is easy. Set up an account, get an invite code, have your child download the app onto their phone, enter the code, and you're done. You can set permanent locations your child might travel to such as school, the library, or a friend’s house and see when they arrive at that location and when they leave in real-time.

Screenshot of https://www.life360.com/ 2/19/2020

We also liked the concept of creating a family or private circle within the app, where all members of the family are tracked.  A child may not feel he/she is being singled out if everyone, including Mom and Dad, is being tracked as well. All members of the circle have to be invited, download the app and enter the invite code, so it reduces the possibility of the app being installed on a phone without the owner knowing. An in-app chat feature makes it easy to communicate if plans change. The app can even monitor the battery level on a phone and send an alert when it is low.

Life360 also offers a Driver Protect Plan that, in addition to providing location, provides crash detection, emergency response, roadside assistance, and reports on driving habits.

In November 2019, Life360 acquired ZenScreen, a time scheduling parental control app. With this acquisition, Life360 can offer time scheduling capabilities such as scheduling mini-breaks during which your child can’t access social media (other apps will work), reporting how much time is spent on each app, and setting daily use limits. Apps are broken down into three categories: education, entertainment, and productivity. You can set limits for the entertainment category while the educational and productivity apps will still function. ZenScreen works on Android, iOS, and Chrome.

Life360 works on iOS and Android.  It has a free plan that provides all location tracking, battery monitoring, and in-app chat features. The Plus plan costs $2.99 per month and adds Crime Reports, which alert you to crimes reported in specific areas, to its tracking features. The Driver Protect Plan, at $7.99 per month, includes all the driver monitoring, roadside assistance, crash detection, and emergency response features. Life360 comes with a seven-day free trial.

Aura review

Best for Large Families And Built-In Ancillary Protection

If you're a family of five and each of your family members use multiple digital devices, Aura may be the most economical parental control app choice for you. Aura's service is distinguished by its wide coverage. The company's family plan includes service for up to 5 adults (think grandparents and baby sitters) using up to 10 devices. Aura works across multiple devices including computers, smartphones, and tablets. So no matter how many types of digital devices your family uses, you'll be covered by the app. It costs just $99 per year. That's a little on the costly side, but that's because the Aura app includes many features other parental control apps do not provide.

The Aura parental control app allows you to easily monitor and control your children's digital experience. Parents have the choice of controlling which apps, games, and websites your children have access to. You can set different parameters for each of your children, which allows you to set age-appropriate limits for multiple children. The app also allows you to set limits on your kids screen time. Aura covers various social media platforms including Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat, and YouTube.

Screenshot from Aura.com 01/04/2023

Aura's plan also differs from others because it provides a host of other online safety services that many people pay extra for. The Aura package also comprises:

  • A password manager 
  • A VPN that hides your location when you're online
  • A Safe Browsing feature that warns you before you enter dangerous scam or phishing websites
  • Anti-virus protection
  • Anti-tracking and ad blocking
  • Email alias creation to hide your email address and limit unwanted marketing. This feature also serves to reduce your exposure in data breaches.
  • Safe gaming
  • Pause the internet
  • Cyberbullying and predator alerts

Aura makes it easy to try its services out before making a commitment to purchase. The company offers a 14-day free trial, during which you can evaluate how easy the app is to install and use and verify that it provides the type of control you're looking for. If you purchase an annual plan, you're assured a 60-day money-back guarantee.

We did note that, for parents who don't need all of the ancillary protection a full Aura plan provides—or those who want to limit their tech expenses—Circle parental control can be purchased separately for $99 per year. Circle allows you to filter, block, and monitor websites and apps you don't want your kids exposed to, as well as set screen time limits. It also comes with anti-virus protection and a VPN.

 


Honorable Mentions

OurPact can work on either Android or iOS phones. It offers app, website, and text blocking, location tracking, geo-fencing, time limits on specific apps,and allows you to set rules for device use. The app has a free plan, but it's limited to only one device and very limited in terms of features. The Premium plan offers all monitoring features for up to 20 devices at a reasonable $6.99 per month.

Mobicip is designed to work on iOS, Android, Windows, macOS, Kindle, and Chromebook, which should cover just about any device in your home. It offers full parental control features such as app and website blocking, location tracking, time scheduling/blocking, etc. The app is offered as part of three plans. Each plan provides the same access to all features. What changes is the number of devices covered, from five to 15. They range in price from $34.99 to $99.99 per year.

NetNanny can be used on Windows, macOS, Android, iOS, and Kindle. It provides all blocking and monitoring features plus time management. Its unique feature is the use of artificial intelligence to analyze a website's content and block inappropriate material before your child gets to see it, even if you haven’t blocked that particular site. NetNanny has three price plans, but the best value is the 20-device Family Protection Pass, which covers five browsers plus mobile devices for $89.99 per year.

ScreenTime provides location tracking, geo-fencing, time scheduling, and all the features you expect from a full parental control app. The company that makes it offers a free version, but it is very limited. The Premium version is $6.99 per month for an unlimited number of accounts and allows up to five devices per account. If you have six kids, each child can have up to five devices. This could be the perfect choice for larger families.

Our Research

More insight into our methodology


Transparency

We stayed away from spyware apps that are designed to be secretly installed on phones. Aside from the trust issues that may arise from surreptitiously monitoring your child, spyware has developed a bad reputation because it can be used for illegal purposes. While the legal limits of children’s privacy has not been firmly established, spying on adults (even your adult children) poses clearer legal risks.

We also looked for apps that monitor devices without having to either “root” or “jailbreak” the child's phone.  “Rooting” (on Android) and “jailbreaking” (on iPhones) refers to overriding the built-in phone settings in order to obtain permissions the user would not normally have, including the ability to replace an operating system. While not illegal, there is a question of whether rooting or jailbreaking a device can make it more vulnerable to malware and other risks. Rooting and jailbreaking will also void the warranty on your phone. For the sake of caution, we avoided apps that required a phone to be either rooted or jailbroken.


Multiple OS Monitoring

We chose apps that had the ability to monitor different types of operating systems. It’s common nowadays for a child to have access to not only a cell phone but also a tablet or computer. A parent may have an iPhone, but need to monitor a child’s Android phone or a Windows PC, Kindle, or macOS device. Apps that work across different platforms were therefore given more consideration than those specializing in one type of device.


Unique Features

Apps that offered a unique feature not commonly found in most apps were graded slightly higher than others. Parents may want to monitor a child’s location but not necessarily their social media interactions--and vice versa. An app that specializes in the type of monitoring the parent is interested in will have greater value.


Ease of Installation/Use

We preferred apps that were easy to install, set up, and monitor. The easier the app is to use, the more likely you will actually benefit from all its features. Apps that weren’t intuitive or were harder to figure out were not graded as highly.

Helpful information about Parental Control Apps

Your Kids and Social Media

Children are getting online at a younger age each year. Teaching our children how to responsibly use online resources will only help them develop a healthy relationship with the digital world. They’ll be able self-regulate the amount of time they spend on their devices, create healthy social relationships, and learn to identify and avoid risky online behaviors.

A 2019 Common Sense Media survey found that the use of smartphones had increased across all age groups over the last four years, even among the youngest in the survey.

PERCENTAGE OF CHILDREN OWNING SMARTPHONES BY AGE
  2015 2019

8 years old

11% 19%

12 years old

41% 69%

15 years old

71% 83%

18 years old

77% 91%

Time spent online remained fairly constant between 2015 and 2019, with kids ages 8-12 spending an average of four and a half hours a day online, while kids ages 13-18 spent about seven and half hours (not including time spent on homework). Most of the time spent online is watching videos, with YouTube being the most popular source, or playing online games

What does all this mean? Your kids are experiencing a world unlike any you grew up with. “Social media can be the springboard to civic engagement and creative expression, with thriving communities dedicated to social activism, music-making, fan fiction, and much more,” says Anya Kamenetz, education correspondent for NPR and author of The Art of Screen Time: How Your Family Can Balance Digital Media and Real Life.

Social media allows for more frequent communication with relatives and family friends who don’t live in your immediate vicinity. This can be especially important in maintaining relationships with older relatives such as grandparents, helping the younger generation enjoy a greater sense of family, and encouraging the older generation to be involved with and connected to their grandchildren. Kids can learn about other cultures, develop new skills, have an outlet for their creative expression, or take online classes they may not have ready access to.

That doesn’t mean there isn’t a downside. One of the biggest worries you may have as a parent is the sheer amount of content your child is being exposed to and how to ensure that this content is appropriate for them. Your kids can be exposed to violence, explicit images, online bullying, and sexual predation. The use of social media “likes” and the accumulation of followers as a barometer of popularity can lead children into contact with people they have never met--some of whom may not have the best of intentions. “[Children] actually have a lot of content and access and people potentially coming at them,” says Ana Homayoun, family counselor and author of Social Media Wellness, “and they don’t necessarily know how to structure that.”

Whether your child’s experience online turns into a positive or a negative doesn’t depend on the internet, but on how he or she chooses to use it. A parental control app can help to establish boundaries and time limits, and which app you choose will depend on your parenting style, values and assessment of your child’s needs. However, to get the best result from these apps, you and your child need to have a series of conversations.

Helping Your Kids Safely Navigate the Digital World

Relying solely on an app to limit your child’s access to online material can lead to a false sense of security. Kids today are more tech-savvy and can find ways around the restrictions these apps impose by creating new social media and communications accounts. But talking to your kids about why you believe the app is necessary and coming to a mutual agreement on its use can be helpful.  As Homayoun points out, having frequent and open conversations with your children with compassion, empathy, and understanding rather than with fear, anger, and frustration can help them make better choices online, regardless of whether you’re watching them.

Conversations can start as an explanation of the general rules for using a device. Make it clear that you are the actual owner of the device and that as such you reserve the right to occasionally check it. You can also have the password to your children’s phone and online accounts, but let them know you’ll use it only if a problem presents itself. The key idea is to teach your children the proper way of using their phone/tablet/computer and the online resources they’ll have access to. “Teach them the same etiquette online that you would expect of them in face-to-face social life,” says  Dalton Conley, Professor of Sociology at Princeton University.

Once general rules are established, the parental control app can serve as a reinforcement. Remember though, as with all things digital, that glitches, malfunctions and gaps can occur. If your child does happen to run across content that is not age-appropriate, make sure they feel comfortable coming to you with any questions and concerns. These may not be easy conversations to have with your kids, but they’re necessary nonetheless.

One other thing to remember. If you set a family rule that no cell phones are to be used during dinner time, or during family outings, the rule should also apply to you. Children, younger ones especially, learn behaviors by seeing what their parents are doing. If you are busy texting or answering the phone during times when you should be focused on offline activities, that is what your children will learn. If you do have to use the phone, make sure you explain that there is a specific reason for doing so. “We need to help kids understand the ‘intentional’ use of screens, that they have a proper time and place. It doesn’t have to be 24/7,” says Homayoun.

When Parental Control Crosses the Line

Parental control apps share a lot in common with what is known as spyware--apps designed to secretly monitor the phone or computer activities of another person without their knowledge. These apps track your location, use keylogger features to capture anything written on the device, and record phone conversations. The difference between the two is intent. Spying on a colleague or spouse is unethical and in most states illegal. Recording remote conversations is illegal without both parties’ consent. Parental monitoring, on the other hand, has an ethical goal: limiting children’s access to inappropriate online content, which falls within parental rights. 

Although some parental control apps give you the option to secretly install them on your child’s phone, we don’t recommend doing so. Your kids will eventually find out, and that can damage the mutual trust that should exist within the family. You want to keep your children safe, but you also want them to trust you enough to discuss things that trouble them about their online experience. By contrast, if you monitor them secretly and they find out, it may encourage them to find workarounds like using burner phones, creating new accounts under a different name, or using a friend's phone. 

As parents, we have to learn to walk the fine line between not enough monitoring and too much. According to Kamenetz, not enough interest in a child’s online activity can lead to your child feeling like you don't care about them and encourage them to look for validation from other sources. Too much control can lead them to feel like they have to lie and hide their activities in order to protect themselves. “A teen who is experienced at hiding their online life won’t come to you if they really get in trouble,” says Kamenetz.

Privacy is important, especially for older teens who are learning to become responsible adults. Unless they are exhibiting extreme behaviors, you may want to relax a little on the monitoring. An occasional check-in could be enough. After all, they do need to learn how to set limits on their own. When using a monitoring app, let them know that it is to do just that-- monitor. You won’t be looking into everything they do online, but reserve the right to check in once in a while to make sure everything is okay. “I think kids do need some private space to interact with peers,” says Conley. “And since this mostly takes place online these days, it may be useful for children’s development not to have their parents in all their accounts.” 

The Trouble with iPhones

While doing research on parental control apps, we ran across a number of complaints about apps that weren’t working well on iPhones and iPads. This isn’t the app's fault and you didn’t install it incorrectly. Problems began popping up with these apps when Apple introduced iOS12 with Screen Time controls in 2018. In fact, many parental control apps were removed from the App Store at this time. The app developers were told by Apple that they violated App Store guidelines. 

Basically, Apple removed apps that used Mobile Device Management (MDM) and Virtual Private Networks (VPNs) to implement browser, time usage, and website monitoring controls. Instead, Apple introduced its Screen Time feature to install parental controls on iPhones and iPads, providing the same services as many parental control apps. The removed apps were no longer supported on iPhones, so the apps’ performance suffered. More recently, Apple has relented somewhat and some parental control apps are once again available in the App Store. However, many customers are still experiencing difficulty with some of the monitoring features they offer.

If you do use an iPhone and want more control than Apple’s Screen Time offers, you can try combining it with another parental control app. You’ll have to experiment a little to see what combination of apps works best for you. Here’s where the free trial periods each app offers come in handy. Take advantage of them to test all the features of the app. If you’re not satisfied, you can always cancel. You won’t be charged during the trial period. However, remember to cancel before the trial period is up; otherwise, you will be charged either the monthly or yearly rate.

Parental Controls for Gaming Consoles

One of the biggest problems associated with children and online use is the amount of time kids spend playing games, which currently averages about an hour and half of gaming time per day. The apps mentioned here can monitor and block games on cell phones and computers, but what about game consoles? Fortunately, all the popular game consoles have integrated parental controls. And here’s a crazy thought: why not sit down and play games with your kids? You can keep tabs on what they’re doing while bonding with them at the same time.

Sony PlayStation

The Playstation comes with a complete set of controls that allow you to set restrictions for individual children. These restrictions include age levels for games, movies on Blu-ray and DVD, the use of PlayStation VR, communication with other players, the use of internet browser and more. Information can be found at the PlayStation Support site.

Xbox One

The Xbox One comes with parental controls integrated within the console. You can control the information people see about your child, limit online communication within the game, view status and gaming history, limit content and purchases, set age limits, block inappropriate games, and more. 

Nintendo Switch

The Nintendo Switch is the only gaming console that has its own parental control app in addition to its in-console controls. With the app, available through the App Store or Google Play, you can set daily time limits, suspend play if time limits are exceeded, choose from pre-set options or custom select games that can be played, limit sharing of in-game text and images, restrict the ability to post screenshots of the game to social media, and restrict the ability to purchase games.

Summary

Once you decide to use a parental control app, make sure your children understand why you feel the app is necessary and that those restrictions can be eased when certain conditions are met. Always let them know that you are there to help and support them no matter what. As Kamenetz points out, “A sane and balanced relationship to social media comes out of a broader healthy family dynamic where the family spends time together, values each others’ opinions and ideas, validates emotions and where a sense of love and self-worth is coming from inside the family and you’re ‘in real life’ community--not solely from online.”


FAQs about Parental Control Apps


When should I install a parental control app?

Ideally, you should install the app when you give your child his/her first phone. Discuss the reason behind the installation and let them know that as they grow older the restrictions on the app will change. If the child is already using a phone, install the app if you notice a problem or significant change in your child’s behavior. Always discuss the installation of a monitoring app with your child beforehand.


When should I stop monitoring my child’s online activity?

If your child is happy, healthy, sociable, responsible and not hooked on online games and social media, you should stop monitoring. If need be, monitor until your child’s 18th birthday, then stop.  Monitoring your adult child will only lead to alienating him/her and can cause an estrangement that could be hard to overcome.


What is the best parental control app for an iPhone?

At the moment the best parental controls for iPhones are those provided by the Screen Time feature of the phone. These are default controls installed by Apple and will work seamlessly. Third-party parental control apps will have limited functionality on iPhones.


Should I secretly install a parental control app on my child’s phone?

No. By secretly installing the app, you’re basically spying on your child, and while this may seem like a good idea, it can lead to mistrust between you and him/her. Always discuss any monitoring of social media and internet use with your child, and reach an agreement on rules for the phone’s use.